The 5 Best Vibrators For Women Over 50
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Vibrators can be scary. I get it. For years, they were something just kept in our nightstands and never talked about. Fortunately, sex, pleasure, and orgasms are becoming mainstream conversation. Sexual wellness is a hot topic right now, and, for once, women over 50 are part of the sexual revolution.
In this blog post, I’ll cover why sexual wellness matters for women over 50 and give you my top vibrator recommendations!
Why sexual wellness matters for women over 50
During menopause, many women experience physical symptoms and changes, including low libido, vaginal dryness, and pain during sex (collectively referred to as Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause or GSM). GSM is a new term that describes various menopausal symptoms and signs associated with physical changes of the vulva, vagina, and lower urinary tract. The GSM includes genital symptoms (dryness, burning, and irritation), sexual symptoms (lack of lubrication, discomfort or pain, and impaired function), and urinary symptoms (urgency, dysuria, and recurrent urinary tract infections).
GSM isn’t talked about much, unfortunately, but it can put your sex life on hold and decrease your quality of life. If this is you, fear not! There are plenty of ways to reestablish a healthy sex life… and one of the easiest ways to do that is to use sex toys.
Why sex toys are part of a healthy sex life
Sex toys often open up a whole new world to women. The reality is that masturbation is good for you, and toys like vibrators are nothing to be ashamed of. Regular masturbation and orgasms are great for keeping your pelvic floor healthy, which means less incontinence and better sex in general. Plus, sex toys have therapeutic benefits for menopausal women. These devices can help with arousal and orgasm issues that many women experience as they age, and create more vaginal moisture, which leads to less painful sex.
Nowadays, there are more vibrators than ever made by women, for women. That’s even reflected in the design of them, which now come in pretty colors and shapes—that’s right, they look a lot less intimidating than they used to!
So without further ado, here are my top vibrator recommendations for all women over 50. I’ve listed out the benefits of each and given you a link where you can purchase, if you’re interested.
1. The Sexual Wellness Kit from Tabu
If you follow the blog, you know that I’m a HUGE fan of Tabu. Their Sexual Wellness Kit was a Pure Joy Wellness Approved product! Besides being a female-run company with 100% safe ingredients, this kit includes a super discreet self-massager and a totally organic lubricant. This kit is perfect fit for anyone, but especially those who are new to sex toys!
Get your Kit Here: https://www.heytabu.com/products/the-kit
2. The Ose 2 from Lora Di Carlo
Believe it or not, this is an award-winning vibrator. Designed to stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris, this toy is the ultimate sexual companion and it’s fully adjustable to fit any body.
Get the Ose 2 review here: https://bedbible.com/lora-dicarlo-ose-2-review/.
3. The Crescendo from Mystery Vibe
Mystery Vibe makes three different vibrators, but the crowd favorite is the Crescendo. I love that it’s made with FDA-approved body-safe silicone, that it’s 100% waterproof, and has a long battery life (up to two hours).
https://mysteryvibe.com/pages/crescendo-bendme?
4. Any vibrator from Smile Makers
Another stellar company to buy a vibrator from is Smile Makers. The company offers seven different models, and a quiz you can take to find the right one for you! This is great for anyone who is new to self-pleasure. Plus, their products are 100% waterproof, made of body safe silicone, discreet, and quiet.
Take the quiz and get yours here: https://smilemakerscollection.com/how-to-choose-a-vibrator/
5. The Vibe from Maude
Finally is Maude. If you’re looking for a simple, modern vibrator, Maude has you covered. Their “Vibe” vibrator’s simple shape is designed for focused stimulation. It’s easy-to-use, water-resistant, phthalate- and latex-free!
Get yours here: https://getmaude.com/collections/devices
Like I said before, I understand that talking about sex can make some people uncomfortable—but life is so short, and why shouldn’t we experience pleasure like everyone else? I’m here to tell you that there is NO shame in self-pleasure and sex toys, and if you really feel awkward about it, no one needs to know. But again, I encourage you to talk about it with women you trust. The only way sex becomes less taboo is if we talk about it!
You know where you can definitely talk about it? In our Pure Joy Wellness Private Facebook Group!
Follow this link to join a safe space with women over 50 who are ready and eager to support you!
Xo,
Renata